Re: HOW TO HOOK UP.
Find a way to talk to him. It can be on the way to class or in the library. Any conversation is vital to the process. Just say "hey" and you'll be on your way!
When you talk to him, begin flirting right away. Make it obvious...your goal is to hook up with him not start a relationship. Touching his arm and playing with your hair are important things to do to make that physical connection you want.
Arrange a date or time to hang out. It can be just the two of you or in a group of friends. Parties are your best bet.
Stay by your guy's side the entire night. Talk and flirt a lot! Make sure you are getting good feedback from him. If he seems uninterested or like he just wants to be friends, back away. You don't want to make things awkward.
If he responds positively, ask him if he wants to get some air or go to a quieter place to talk. You can go outside or to a bedroom.
Begin talking once you've moved to the new location. Touch his arm, leg, etc. Laugh and smile when the times are right. If everything is going great, move closer to him. It helps if it is dark or the lights are off.
When you feel the time is right and the tension is building, come in for a kiss. If you're hooking up, it is okay to use tongue in the kiss. If your guy likes it, keep going.
If you're successful, you may end up at second base or further...whatever you want! Good luck and have fun girl!
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11 Nov 2011 02:39 am |