Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
~From a headstone in Ireland
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
It's so curious: one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses.
Sorrow you can hold, however desolating, if nobody speaks to you. If they speak, you break down.
While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates. You must wait till it be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it.
Grieving is a necessary passage and a difficult transition to finally letting go of sorrow - it is not a permanent rest stop.
Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak whispers the o'er-fraught heart and bids it break.
Man, when he does not grieve, hardly exists.
~Antonio Porchia, Voces, 1943, translated from Spanish by W.S. Merwin
Even hundredfold grief is divisible by love.
Sorrow makes us all children again - destroys all differences of intellect. The wisest know nothing.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
No one can keep his griefs in their prime; they use themselves up.
Grief is a species of idleness.
Grief is itself a medicine.
~William Cowper, Charity
In my Lucia's absence
Life hangs upon me, and becomes a burden;
I am ten times undone, while hope, and fear,
And grief, and rage and love rise up at once,
And with variety of pain distract me.
We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.
Memory is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.
~From the television show The Wonder Years
If you're going through hell, keep going.
We acquire the strength we have overcome.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Time is a physician that heals every grief.
No one ever really dies as long as they took the time to leave us with fond memories.
The deep pain that is felt at the death of every friendly soul arises from the feeling that there is in every individual something which is inexpressible, peculiar to him alone, and is, therefore, absolutely and irretrievably lost.
There's a bit of magic in everything, and some loss to even things out.
~Lou Reed, "Magic and Loss"
Courage is being afraid but going on anyhow.
You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.
Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal.
There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go.
If you suppress grief too much, it can well redouble.
Loss is nothing else but change, and change is Nature's delight.
~Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
In the night of death, hope sees a star, and listening love can hear the rustle of a wing.
Even if happiness forgets you a little bit, never completely forget about it.
The sorrow which has no vent in tears may make other organs weep.
Every evening I turn my worries over to God. He's going to be up all night anyway.
~Mary C. Crowley
She was no longer wrestling with the grief, but could sit down with it as a lasting companion and make it a sharer in her thoughts.
While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil.
As long as I can I will look at this world for both of us. As long as I can I will laugh with the birds, I will sing with the flowers, I will pray to the stars, for both of us.
~Sascha, as posted on motivateus.com