There are two good reasons why this is the opposite of what you should be doing. 

 

The first downside to doing things like this is that you are coming at it from the mindset that you must persuade her into liking you. This is just another symptom of trying to impress the girl and show her that you are worthy of her. She will most likely not think this is charming and this might hurt your chances with her if she already does like you. It is perfectly acceptable to like a woman without having to have some type of logical thinking behind it. 

 

And second, you actually aren’t even there with her at all because you are too busy being stressed and churning over just what you will say to her. You are lost in your own brain, which really is not attractive to women at all. Do the contrary of this and be there entirely with her. 

 

You are most likely thinking this is all hippy-dippy junk, but you’d be surprised at how very true this is. If you’d like help with this, simply try focusing on your body. Do you feel the way your feet are resting on the ground or how the shirt you are wearing feels against your body? What about how your body starts to feel when you are with the woman? I hope you can start to grasp why this is so critical when you’re approaching girls? 

 

I hope you are beginning to get this. 

 

Sure that is great, but what are some specific things that can be done to let her know you dig her? Here is how to let a girl know you like her properly. 

 

There is a term in the seduction group known as an SOI - Statement of Intent. The term was coined by Wayne Elise (otherwise known as "Juggler") and is really just a straightforward method to let a girl know that you think she’s attractive. A basic SOI will go something like this: 

 

Her: I have an extra 2-hour rehearsal tonight for my big dance performance on Friday. 

 

You: I really think it is sexy how dedicated and excited you are about your performance. 

 

The key part here is the term "sexy." This lets her know that you don’t see her as a friend. It’s a very subtle detail, but this lets the girl know that she can move forward and start hitting on you. Simply say this in an enjoyable way and proceed with the conversation. You must be informal about this or else it will come off as really weird. Take my word, she will not overlook your point. 

 

There is one other way to let a woman know that you like her, which would be to just be straightforward and frank with her. 

 

For instance, maybe you’re getting together with her and one of those quiet moments falls over the two of you. You need to use this as an opportunity to basically say what you are both thinking about. "I really think you’re hot and all I want to do at the moment is kiss you." Of course you have to actually make your move and kiss the girl here. This will likely seem a bit intimidating initially, but girls think this is very romantic. 

 

The important difference between this and the clumsy, worried strategy above, is that, first of all, it is not some kind of memorized trick you kind of stumble through. And secondly, this is a very manly thing to do. You’re really telling her you want to kiss her, not "sort of kind of" asking her if she’d like to see a movie. You’re altogether at ease with your desires. This type of move also shows her that you have a lot of follow through and you pursue your goals. Women think this is attractive. 

 

So, that is how to let a girl know you like her. The main factor here is to make sure that it is laid back rather than some sort of huge problem. When you just act like it is the most ordinary and natural thing there is, she will treat it so and follow suit.

 

 

Brian Broderick used to be a shy "nice guy" that was totally clueless with women. Now in a relationship with his perfect woman, he enjoys helping other men reach their dating goals. 

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