Believe it or not, many men face this problem because they have no idea what a woman looks for in a man or finds attractive. Although every woman is different in her preferences there are some attributes in men that attract most, if not all, women other than good looks. Here are some tips worth considering before asking that special someone out for your first date.

 

Women love a man that has confidence. If you’ve ever heard the saying fake it until you make it, it may become a necessity. Women enjoy having men compliment them and make them feel special. They’re not going to get this on the date if the man is so self conscious and insecure that he needs someone telling him how great he is. 

 

Keep in mind; however, that there is a huge difference between having confidence and being arrogant or conceited. A man can show his confidence in many ways such as sharing ideas and opinions without being argumentative. When a man has confidence, he doesn’t always have to be right. 

 

Women also find a man that’s affectionate and kind to be very appealing. This doesn’t mean you should be pawing her in public or be a push over, but be kind, affectionate and thoughtful. If you both have different ideas of what you want to do, don’t be afraid to compromise and make her happy first. You can do what you wanted to do on your own time or on your next date. She’ll appreciate the effort you made to make her happy. 

 

Women like a man that will offer her security and take care of her. This doesn’t mean that every woman wants to be taken care of, but she wants to know that he’s willing and able to if need be. If they have marriage and children on their minds, as most women do, they need to know the man can offer security. They won’t see this if you have a history of not holding one job very long. 

 

These are just a few of the many traits that women look for in men. Next time you’re looking in the mirror, ask yourself how many of these traits you already posses and how many you can easily develop with a little effort in time for your first date.