102 questions to ask your boyfriends or girlfriends

Here’re some suggested questions you can ask someone you’re trying to know better. Each question will provide you a glimpse into an aspect of their personality. Put these questions to yourself and you may get to know yourself better.


Are there any causes you strongly believe in?
Are you a member of any societies or or associations?
Are you a people’s person or do you prefer your own company?
Are you a virgin? If not, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
Are you addicted to anything?
Are you afraid of ghosts?
Are you afraid of heights?
Are you short tempered?
Can you dance? Do you like dancing?
Can you keep a secret?
Do you believe in life afther death?
Do you believe in marriage? Why?
Do you believe in monogamy?
Do you consider yourself a neat or messy person?
Do you consider yourself lazy?
Do you drink?
Do you have a role model?
Do you have any siblings? If yes, are they older/younger to you? Are they male or female?
Do you have many friends? Are you in touch with friends from school/college? How close are you?
Do you like cooking?
Do you like eating out at restaurants?
Do you like going window shopping?
Do you like partying? Attending parties? Giving parties?
Do you like pets?
Do you like to go dancing?
Do you like to travel? Which has been your best vacation so far? What made it so special?
Do you love children?
Do you own or use a desktop computer or a laptop?
Do you read newspapers?
Do you read? Has any particular book influenced you or left a life-changing impact?
Which are your favorite authors?
Do you see your father as the head of the family?
Do you smoke?
Do you want to have children? Why?
Have you ever been on a blind date?
Have you ever been on the wrong side of the law?
Have you ever been part of a not-for-profit organization and done volunteer work?
Have you ever been to a school or college reunion?
Have you ever had a narrow escape from death?
Have you ever taken a sabattical?
Have you ever undergone therapy of any sort?
How ambitious are you?
How do you like to celebrate your birthday?
How do you feel about divorce?
How do you like to spend New Year’s Eve?
How important is money to you?
How important is your family to you?
How is your relationship now with your siblings?
How long are you on the internet every day?
How many credit cards do you own?
How many lovers have you had so far?
How often do you meet your parents?
How old were you when you started dating
How patient are you?
How religious are you? Do you pray regularly?
How romantic are you?
How tall do you want your mate to be?
If a relative died and left you a million dollars, what would you do with the money?
If you could change one event in history what would it be?
If you could go on a vacation anywhere in the world where would it be? What stops you?
If you could know one historical figure very intimately, who would that be?
What are your political leanings like?
What did you do during the summers when you were growing up?
What do you consider the five biggest drawbacks of your personality?
What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality?
What do you consider your biggest achievement to date?
What do you do for a living? What would you rather do, if money was not a consideration?
What do your parents do?
What has been your most generous act of charity, whether in cash or kind, yet?
What is the most adventurous thing you’ver ever done?
What is the most expensive gift you’ve ever bought for someone?
What is the most stupid thing you’ve ever done?
What is the movie you’ve loved the most and would watch again, given a choice? Why?
What is your favorite sport?
What is your idea of a perfect evening?
What is your relationship like now with your father?
What is your relationship like now with your mother?
What was it like, growing up with with your siblings?
What was your relationship like with your father when you were growing up?
What was your relationship like with your mother when you were growing up?
What would you do if your best friend disapproved of me?
What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
What’s the highest educational qualification you obtained?
What’s the worst thing you ever did to a friend?
What’s your earliest childhood memory?
When is your birthday?
When was the last time you cried
When was the last time you felt really proud of yourself?
When was the last time you really laughed?
When was the last time you told a lie?
Where you see yourself in five years time?
Which body part are you more likely to notice first in someone of the opposite sex?
Which celebrity do you admire?
Which has been your longest romantic relationship, so far?
Which is the largest loan you’ve ever taken?
Which is the largest purchase you’ve ever made?
Which is your favorite magazine?
Which personality traits do you want your partner to have? Which of these are an absolute must?
Which religion do you belong to?
Which was the last really impulsive thing you did? Are you an impulsive person?
Would you prefer to marry someone who belongs to the same religion as you?
Would you rather live in a large urban city, a small town or in the countryside? Why?
All of these questions are open-ended and will help you draw your partner out.